Have you ever been in love? Feels great, right? But have you experienced losing the great state of being in love and getting your heart broken into pieces that you feel like you can’t breathe anymore?
Heartbreaks are really one of the most terrible things to handle as it targets and affects our emotions big time! Especially when we gave everything we could to make the relationship work. A lot of worst things can happen and sometimes were out of control of the actions we do.
Time even comes when we become idle and feel like we’re not capable of doing anything productive any more. But what to do? Getting over, moving on and forgetting someone we used to love that much is just so hard. Even when they already did us something wrong and lied so many times, we still deny and ignore these stuffs because we don’t want admit to ourselves that they never really loved us back or something has just changed already.
It’s reality and we will never understand these things unless we really used our hearts. But what about us? After every heartbreaks, are we just gon let ourselves drown into sadness and pessimism just because our ego can’t take the fact that someone has dumped us? And see them happy and enjoying life while we sob over a "spilled milk." I believe it’s only for losers. If we can’t think of an outlet to help ourselves get over it, then, we are Certified Losers forever.
Listed below are my 5 Favorite Songs that can help lift our spirits from all the dilemma caused by heartaches, losses, helplessness, rejection and simply the feeling of being sad and low.
I: Breakaway by Kelly Clarkson(https://youtube.com/watch?v=GVn3uHEqRvw_
I’ll spread my wings and I’ll learn how to fly
I’ll do what it takes ‘til I touch the sky
I’ll make a wish, take a chance
Make a change, and breakaway
Out of the darkness and into the sun
But I won’t forget all the ones that I loved
I’ll take a risk, Take a chance
Make a change and breakaway
Wanna feel the warm breeze
Sleep under a palm tree
Feel the rush of the ocean
Get onboard a fast train
Travel on a jet plane, far away(I will)
And breakaway
Buildings with a hundred floors
Swinging around revolving doors
Maybe I don’t know where they’ll take me but
Gotta keep moving on, moving on
Fly away, breakaway
*good song for self-motivation. no matter how lost we may be or we dont know where were going to after each heartaches, we just gotta move on
II: Somedayby Nina(https://youtube.com/watch?v=b1ghHtTaBhM)
Someday you’re going to realize
One day you’ll see this though my eyes
By then I won’t even be there
I’ll be happy somewhere
Even if I cared, I know you don’t really see my worth
You think you’re the best guy on earth
Well I’ve got news for you
I know I’m not that strong
But it won’t take long
Won’t take long
Someday someone’s gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday someone’s gonna take your place
One day I’ll forget about you
Someday, someday…
Right now I know you can tell
I’m down and I’m not doing well
But one day these tears they will all run dry
I won’t have to cry, sweet goodbye
this song has a little bit of bitterness but it helps. sometimes we have to convince ourselves and think this way no matter how much we still love the person who hurt us so we can give comfort to ourselves even a bit
III: Goodbye To You by Michelle Branc *h( *https://youtube.com/watch?v=9BXXBZSZBYw)
I’ve been searching deep down in my soul
Words that I’m hearing are starting to get old
Looks like I’m starting all over again
The last three years were just pretend and I say
I still get lost in your eyes And it seems like I can’t live a day without you
Closing my eyes till you chase my thoughts away
To a place where I am blinded by the light but it’s not right
*Goodbye to you, Goodbye to everything I thought I knew
You were the one I loved, the one thing that I tried to hold on to
It hurts to want everything & nothing at the same time
I want what’s yours and I want what’s mine *
I want you but I’m not giving in this time
For me, it’s a good song for those who try to be strong to turn their back on the things that don’t give them any good anymore. Best for those who are still haunted in a one way relationship and can’t move on even things are not working anymore
IV: I Think God Can Explain by Splender( https://youtube.com/watch?v=KO5_Ce7AL2g)
There’s a lot of things I understand
And there’s a lot of things that I don’t want to know
But you’re the only face I recognize
It’s so damn sweet of you to look me in the eyes
The scent of vaseline in the summertime
The feel of an ice cube melting over time
The world seems bigger than both of us
Yet it seems so small when I begin to cry
I’m so much better than you guessed
I’m so much bigger than you guessed
I’m so much brighter than you guessed
It’s alright, I’m ok I think God can explain
I believe I’m the same I get carried away
It’s alright, I’m ok I think God can explain
I’m relieved, I’m relaxed
I’ll get off of your back, I think God can explain
I like this song because it talks about optimism and faith in God. When we leave everything to God, our feelings become much more lighter and soon everything seems getting better. God will always be our guide in everything and He will never give us trials that we can't handle in the end. Each experience that comes our way has a purpose
V: RAINBOW by Southborder(https://youtube.com/watch?v=9mTl_KqE7W4)
Finally, this is my favorite song among these five because the essence is really inspiring. In every trial we encounter in ourlives, in every dark corners, theres always light somewhere. The more you will like it when you also hear the melody of this song
.But baby this is life now don’t get mad
cant you see That no matter what happens
Life goes on and on So baby, please smile
Coz I’m always around you And ill make you see how beautiful
Life is for you and me Life’s full of challenges
Not all the time we get what we want
But don’t despair my dear coz I know now
You’ll take each trial and you’ll make it through the storm
Coz you’re strong, my faith in you is clear
So ill say once again this world is wonderful and
Let us celebrate life that’s so beautiful, so beautiful
*DISCLAIMER:
These are just songs, motivation should still come from us.
Gotta help ourselves move on and live ourlives on a more mature and better level.
I always advice this to my friends, but I can’t seem to apply it much to myself.
What about you? Have you already moved on? If so, then let me know your tactics.
-KRISTINE FELIX*
