So a lot of my posts have been the complaining types.. as a wise man said dont concentrate on the problem, concentrate on the solution.. so I want to share something positive today!! :)
A lot of things around us irritate us, make us angry, and there are two ways of dealing with anger they say.. one is to gulp it down, keep to yourself and another is to show it on someone you love or someone whom you know will not say anything because of various reasons and there is another option available which I have been practising for quite some while now and that is to Let Go..
I hate people who lie but surprisingly I dont hate myself!! we tend to overlook our mistakes but someone else doing the same mistake is unforgivable!! We tend to forgive ourselves and forget the mistakes we have made yet we hold on to those little grudges we have over others for what ever reason it is..
If ever my mom would put a little more salt in my food I would get angry, whine constantly and forget she is a human and she can make a mistake!! But not even once had I acknowledged the fact that she has been cooking for me for over two decades, most of the time perfectly.. but now if ever she goofs up I say chill mom no big deal!! :P
A old close friend of you lied to you and you still cant believe he did that to you, why dont you remember all the good times you had and realize that every1 needs a second chance and pick up the phone and talk to him? trust me it feels great!! :)
Little things give us the biggest of happiness, money is needed for survival, there is no doubt about it but to be happy all you need is those little little expirences with your loved ones!!
In the constant grind of life we take maa ka pyar,dad ka paisa, didi ki laad etc etc for granted and we forget that we owe them a little respect and gratitude and thats all is needed for being happy!! So Let your EGO go.. :)
